Long distance dating is just not for me?

Here's the scenario. I was dating someone online for about three months, afterwhich I realized that I was unable to go ahead with it; webcams and voice chats were not exactly my cup of tea so I decided to do the cowardly thing. I disappeared, because it was hard to explain it to my online date, as he will be bewildered that 'what took me so long' ( I know what you think).

However I do not feel good about my behaviour and although I still know that I am not a LDR sort of woman, I still hurt and know that I hurt my date in return too.

I would have gone for it have we set a date to meet, but it was not going anywhere because we are both broke at the moment and other issues.

He called, bewildered but all I could say was that he said something to me that I didn't like, which is just partly true.

I am unable to tell him the truth or 'beg' him to set a meeting date.

I am hurting like hell at the momenet, but still know that I won't go back to LDR again.

What would you do?

Long distance dating is just not for me?skinny myspace

Disappearing oin someone is never really an answer - you should at least have told him gradually. Feel bad because you've hurt him.