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girls how come u always say u wnat 2 go out with a nice guy and when a nice guy asks uj out u say 'no' and instead end up w/ a jerk and how come if u like a nice guy u dont ask them out

and is there a way that u'd say yes if a nice guy asked u out

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Well you know the saying "nice guys finish last" well in alot of cases this is true, for some reason alot of girls like the rebel kind of guy. The thing is they want the tough silent type but they want them to be nice too. Girls just get confused , I know I did. It takes a girl a long time to figure out what they want and then what they NEED.Don't make yourself too available and just kinda develope a friendship first.That is so important. Just be yourself. Thier are girls out there who do want nice guys but at the same time they want to feel safe and protected with thier guy. Im sure you will know when the right girl that is your type comes along. GoodLuck and I hope this helps coming from a 44 year old woman who has went out with all the jerks and learned the hard way...shunnydunn

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I used to be that way, but I've been cheated on so much, I've learned to date only nice guys because they treat me like a queen and respect me and the way I am.
Of course but some times the guy who is nice really isn't cool. When a girl says they like guys who are nice they also want the basics like attractive has some muscles and is not afraid about liking the girl.
Girls tend to be so picky..and some don't know what they want and end up choosing the wrong jerky guys instead of the good guys!
Some nice guys dont know how to take control. And girls like guys who know how to take control. Besides its hard to respect someone that treats you like a queen and doesnt expect respect in return. Nice guys get walked on.