online dating: do you guys think it is a do or a don't? if it is a do, do you believe its possible to actually fall for them or have an actual real relationship offline?
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Lets see I was a member of this online dating group, it gave profiles allowed mebers to mail and instant message each other and for free you could share smiles and profile information including pictures. Now I guess I am a litlte risky, but in all honesty I have met some really nice guys, of course there are creeps out there so here are some tips.
1) Set up a seperate email account
this way he cant get personale info untill your ready
2) B careful what yu put in yur profile
3)Keep your emails,
4) Don't rush take it nice and slow
5) If you decide to meet a guy do so first in public and tell some one else the details, where, when, who! Maybe even suggest you do it at a party with your friends there...
Now as far as love goes, YES it does happen, I have met the most perfect man. We have a long distant realtionship but it works, we are crazy about eachother and actually use the distance for the most important thing COMMUNICATION. We are amazed at how much we actually have in common.
You will find that if you both are honest and open you will actually know more about eachother than your friends who have been dating much longer... DO NOT FORGET TO PAY ATTENTION... That way you know when stories change.
GOOD LUCK
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online dating is pretty much good for sex only, or at the very least a short term relationship.. Atleast I think so.. If you're all about something deeper than that, you will likely get frustrated trying to find someone online..
Yeah it's definitely a possibility. It actually happened to my friend's dad who was single for a really long time. I guess you just have to be little careful though to see exactly what kind of guy/girl you are meeting. You definitely don't want to date some psycho killer. But yeah it is definitely possible to find the right person this way.
i say no because my moms friend is into the online dating thing and most of the guy lie about themselves sooo shes spent all that money getting there to meet some guys shes not even interested in
No, simply put because there's alot of missing elements dating through the internet. You can use it as a temporary means to connect but its only TEMPORARY.
The thing with internet dating is that:
1. Theres no touching (like it or not, touching accounts for more tahn 50% of the relationship if not more)
2. The guy/girl isn't physical (sexual attraction is lost quickly, making a online relationship boring really quickly)
3. A persons tonality, voice, expression can't be showed for the most part. (webcam and microphones don't do nearly as much as you would think in an relationship)
Done.
Vo.
Well, i know that some of my friends met on a dating website and they have been together for longer than i know. I know that it is successful, but it is hard to believe what people tell you online. Most people would rather lie to you and make themselves look good than tell you the truth. So do it at your own risk.
i have on-line dated since i was 13. it is a great tool to use to get used to the idea of having a real boyfriend or girlfriend in the future. however there are people in this world that take it way too seriously and believe that this person sitting on the opposite side of the computer do love them. i never truly believed i did love anyone. and yes i have met one of my on-line bfs and it didnt turn out soo well.
so my opinion is yes on-line date but dont take it tooo seriously. its not a real realtionship its not meant to be taken seriously. you cannot go around school saying i have a bf named John Doe and he is 18 and lives in a Cardboard Box. it doesnt work that way. all it is to me at least is a fling or something to keep you occupied.
those who do on-line date and get hurt are the ones that took it too seriously and ran off with a person that supposedly loved them and showered them with gifts.
also when u on-line date you shouldnt give them ur real name, ur real location, ur phone number, ur address, and tell them ur home alone. ppl need to be smart about on-line dating and thankfully i am smart about it.
also teens need to know that they cannot date men or women taht are over the age of 18 and have cyber s*x with them. it is against the law and if reported that adult can be tried as a pedophile. i have encountered may of those. u just need to learn how to avoid them and if u encounter one how to deal with it!
Overall its a great experience if u dont take it seriously and be smart about it!
THE INTERNET --%26gt;%26gt;%26gt; affords ANYONE the ability to present themselves in ANY way that they want.
- UGLY people can pretend to be BEAUTIFUL
- MARRIED people can pretend to be SINGLE
- MEN can pretend to be WOMEN
- SLUTS and WHORES can pretend to be VIRGINS
- CRAZY people can pretend to be SANE
- A-SHOLES can pretend to be NICE
- BORING people can pretend to be FUN
- POOR people can pretend to be RICH
- OLDER people can pretend to be YOUNG.
- YOUNGER people can pretend to be OLDER.
When you think about it . . it's a scary thought. And its ALOT harder to try and pull that crap off in the REAL world. Because anyone can make you believe they went to OXFORD and live in London . . . while actually being Kentucky trailer park TRASH.
ONLINE --%26gt; its much easier to lie, make up stories about yourself, post fake pictures, interract with people in FAKE ways that are not real conversations.
Instant messaging (and email) means the person you are writing to can take as long as they want to skillfully compose an answer. If you were sitting across from them they would have to communicate in REAL TIME with you.
I am in the interent business, and I KNOW that people would MUCH rather present themselves to OTHER people the way they would RATHER be seen, than the way they ACTUALLY ARE.
Keeping this in mind - ALWAYS - is a good idea before getting invloved online.
BUT WOMEN LOVE IT . . . why?? Because its "mysterious", it's "unknown", it leaves so much to the "imagination" . . . and all of those rediculous justifications.
The funny part is . . . they also thik it's "SAFER".
Dont be a chicken sh-t. Get up. Get dressed and go on a REAL DATE if you can get one.
And don't try and tell anyone you "fell in love" online . . . because that is the biggest bunch of CRAP anywhere.
BUT . . . like I said... I am in the Interent Business . . . and there ARE people who are successful in meeting good people online. Those people ARE HONEST ABOUT WHO THEY ARE. Down to the last detail.
Those are the only people who stand a chance to benefit.
:)
Yes i believe, it can possible by online of offline that it may become actual real relation ship. But for that we have to take chances.
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