Dating Advice! plz?

I'm a guy who just got out of a 6 year committed relationship. I can get pretty much any girl's number and can land dates pretty easily. I'm an sexy and talented Greek God and have biceps the size of watermelons but I tend to either under play or over play during the first couple of dates, and then the girl just sort of either dissappears or turns into a 'friend'.

How can I:

a) Find an affordable dating solution ($30+ meals are a no go)

b) Get a guaranteed kiss at the end of the night

c) Get a solid followup series of dates (not get togethers)

d) Improve my overall ability to get to the point of intimacy with a woman within a few dates (Ideally the 1st, 2nd or 3rd)? -Note: I'm not looking at advice in the sack, I'm looking for tips on how to get to the sack faster (Advice from both sexes is appreciated). I am not deliberately looking for a serious relationship, just fooling around, but I am open to the idea...

The complicated part is that I am casually seeing my EX girlfriend. HELP

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Personally ,it seems like you are a little conceited and full of yourself and that probably comes across to your dates. Women, in general, aren't attracted to men that think and act like they are "all that". You can't control who will like you and who won't. Either it works or it doesn't. My advice is be yourself, but show your humble and true side. Be confident but not cocky. Women appreciate that. By showing the real you, you will attract more women that you are compatible with. Most people you date won't work out. Its a numbers game and most of us hae to date many before we find the one for us.

a. For a first date keep it simple, like a drink and/or appetizers. Then if it doesn't work out you both aren't out of a lot of time or $.

b. You can't guarantee anything in life. If you two are meant to kiss it will happen. If not, it won't and go on to the next. Some people have chemistry together and others don't. It's that simple. There are very few people I really want to kiss, and I think many women out there are like that. The key is to date until you find someone that you want to kiss and she wants to kiss you back.

c. See my answer for part b (its the same thing with follow up dates)

d. You can't. Just be yourself and whatever happens will happen. Be honest, sincere and be yourself. Trying to score within a certain amount of dates is pathetic and demeaning to women. Most women with class (and I assume you are interested in classy women) don't sleep with someone on the 1st, 2nd or 3rd date. If they do, it is because you two had a great connection. Sometimes people have it and sometimes they don't. You can't put a timeline on things like love though.

Seems like you should just stay with the ex and forget about moving on and involving other women in the scenario. Most women have a 6th sense and can often tell if you are seeing other women. Usually a woman worth seeing wants to be the only woman in a man's life. We don't care to share.

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firstly if a relationship is over u need to tie the loose ends, be friends but make sure its OVER.

secondly u have a problem its alright to be confidence but u reek arrogance that puts women off real fast.

a) u being cheap so if u broke (which is understandable) u need to know u going to have to put in more personal effort like a picnic or romantic dinner cooking it urself.

b) go with the flow if u where charming and made her comfortable u will get a kiss. listen to what she has to say with a tentative ear

c) if ur first date was successful u'l get the second date, the first date is all about treating her like a lady and being a friend second date is about her getting to know u more

d) rule: women likes hot looking men who are hard to get and acts like the don't know that they hot....practice this and it will have women running to u not away from u.

.....good luck (and keep that arrogance in check)