Dating after marriage?

I have only recently reentered the dating world...which to be honest even before I was married I had male friends that I was close to, but never really had to date...mostly just recirculated the ones I had as needed...However this time I actually went outside the box and even joined an online dating service in which I met a guy, turned out that he had been the step brother to one of my closest friends, although I had never met him, (we live in a small town) We have been I suppose dating for 2 months now, mostly weekends, but he calls through out the week...the dates are very innocent and most have been with my daughter and her friends present. I still don't know whether this should be considered an exclusive relationship, or if I should be dating others and don't really know how to ask him. How do you know...was there a manual that I didn't get. He is very considerate of my home, daughter, her friends and even me...relationship has not been physical except 2 times

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There's nothing wrong with starting under the premise of a friendship. Friendships can grow deeper, and he seems respectful of you and your daughter. Why not just continue with him? Are you in a hurry? Just take it slow, and maybe this next time, you will exercise more maturity in a mate. When we're young, we run more on impulse and are in more of a hurry.

So, just hang out with him. What harm is there? So long as you AND your daughter are comfortable around him, and he doesn't pull any odd behavior, then just continue where you are.

Love can be lovelier the 2nd time around....now where did I hear that??? LOL

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You need to discuss this openly and frankly with him

at a very intimate time and place...

Probably best when you are not fully clothed...
If you are ready for exclusivity ask him. Otherwise just enjoy yourself.
Since you've been seeing him for 2 months, and it's on a every weekend basis, I think you should not be dating anyone else. It's hard to say when a relationship goes "exclusive" but it sounds like you like this guy so I'd worry that if you dated someone else you may lose the guy you're seeing now.
Ok so first off you dont want to bring random men around your daughter. That is the first mistake. You want to be a good role model and bringing around lots of men isnt a good way to show your daughter that someone is or isnt special. You dont know how long this guy will be around so you dont want your daughter to get attached to him if things dont work out for you and him. Since you are getting back into the swing of things you dont want to settle down with one person. Get out there, have fun, get wined and dined, receive gifts, etc etc. Enjoy all you can. No need to settle down. When the right man comes along then you can decide if you want to cut the others loose. The no commitment thing is so nice. You do who you want when you want and dont have to answer to anyone. Im not saying go out and be a whore but have fun. Always protect yourself. Good luck
That is up to u if u feel like u want a relationship wit this guy that let it turn into whatever it is gonna be.
If you want to date other men, then you should definitely get out there and test the waters. Perhaps you should refrain from the physical aspect of the relationship until you are sure that you wish the relationship to advance to that level. You may actually find out that you aren't compatible only at that point... Of course, you shouldn't bring them around your daughter until you are sure that they are the right man for you to be with exclusively.

However, you may need to date him or several men innocently until you are sure that you should pursue a relationship with only one man exclusively.