Sunday, December 6, 2009

Dating a married man!!!!!!!!!!! do you think it's wrong?

So a friend of mine, is dating a married man and she doesn't think that anything is wrong with it. in addition to dating this married man she is dating 2 ex boyfriends, and sleeping with 3 other men plus she is talking to two other guys. She is in her 30's and she doesn't think that there is any thing wrong with dating a man who has a WIFE and a CHILD.



She says she likes his company because he buys her stuff.



she asked me what I think she should do and I told her to get rid of the married man because he is married.



She still goes out to bars and club and makesout with strangers, and she teaches little children!!!!!!



Did I mention that she is in her 30's! plus she already has an STD!!!!!!



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I think its wrong too. It sounds like no matter what you say she probably won't listen. She sounds like she has really low self esteem or is trying to get attention by having sex with these random guys. She's either going to have to figure out what she is doing on her own and stop or she will likely just continue this self destructive behavior. I would try to distance myself from her, personally as people will often think you are like her since you two are friends.



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UH DUH
Well what goes around comes around, karma. She'll wonder why her relationships never work, or why men never take her seriously. Hopefully she'll find out soon enough why it never goes right for her.
Yes it's wrong and you sound to smart to be hanging out with her.
thats wrong
of COURSE it's wrong!!!
Yeah it's wrong...no reason to sugar coat it.
tell her to knock it off! Try to get some sense into her! What she is doing is sick and wrong!
Yes!!



She's a WHORE!



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Why would you want to? If he cheats on her he'll cheat on you!
When you play with fire, be ready to get your hands burnt! That's reality.
what a WH()RE!! its totally wrong! does she not have any morals? common sense?
Omg!Tell ur friend to stop doing that.It's really bad.Doesn't that make the man seem a little like cheating on his wife?
My question is not if there is something wrong with it but is there something RIGHT about it?
u asked do you think it's wrong well let's just say its no natural
O, your friend is a female version of a player i don't want to be harsh...She likes men and she lives her life the way she lives it...Did something happen to her in her past or has she always been like this??
Wow...she needs to see a shrink. Being with a married man, especially one with children, tears the family apart and can ruin lives, she's a jerk.
Yikes. What town are you in?
well shes probably jus wants attention



or wants guys in her life



shes probably jus lonely
what the **** does having an std have to do with it. i dont even have one and i think it is horrible that you are blabbing her business everywhere in the first place.... just let her do her thing.. but yes it is very distastful...
yeah thats pretty f#cked up.
She sounds like a real winner!!! Yeah I think its wrong, but then again it takes two.
It's totally wrong. Your friend needs a reality check, before she ends up dead somewhere in a ditch. Making out with random strangers from clubs? Thats not cool. She gonna get hurt.
gee, i wonder how she got that?
Wow! I think what she is doing, is wrong! She can get herself in such a mess. She needs to slow down majorally and get rid of the married guy! sorry.
Wait till it happens to her, then her whole mind set will change. but I pray she will stop before something very bad happens. If you love her pray for her.
well typically i would say it takes two to tango- but sounds like she is way outta control, so I would say its worse than not OKAY its down right dumb and dangerous
there is nothing wrong with dating multiple men but the married one is definitly wrong. thnk about it what if the tables were turned??what if she had the man and baby and her man did that to her, would it be ok? would it be ok for her future daughter to be treated like that or her sister? she can date all she wants as long as she doesnt interfer with another persons relationship and thats what she is doing and it is wrong. good luck.
well, that friend of yours has some issues invovling self-esteem, she does not realize the dangers that she is putting herself in. you don't have to accept her behavior. let her know that if she does not change her ways of dating that you cannot be there for her to cry to all the time when something goes wrong.
If you're involved with a married man, and you're waiting for your turn, it's time to re-evaluate your situation. It's time to move forward. If you're putting your life on hold for a married man, he's stolen not only your heart 鈥?he's stolen your brain!



No matter how you justify it, you are attacking his family unit.



Even if he is separated from his wife, that is their business and you are a threat to their marriage. You aren't welcome and you don't belong.You may feel that he's your soul mate, but think again. A real soul mate would not set you on the sidelines. He wouldn't allow it, let alone entice it.



Keep in mind that you only know what he tells you. You already know that he's a liar because he's living a lie with his wife and children. How can you be sure whether you're the only "other woman" he has? Entertain the possibility that he is lying to you, and you are being used.



Think of his wife. Is it fair to her? She's been married to him for however many years, cleaned up after him when he's sick, raised children with him, sacrificed with him, dealt with the "damn dailies," then you come in at the 11th hour and provide a contrast to that that's new and exciting and fun. You are intruding upon her turf. You are a trespasser. It is no different than being a thief in the night. It is no different than breaking into their house and stealing their things.



Even if your married man decided to leave his wife and family for you, that doesn't guarantee success. Relationships born out of affairs survive less than 5 percent of the time. If he'll do it with you, he'll do it to you. If he's living this deception with you today, how could you ever trust him if you did get into a legitimate relationship with him? Break off this relationship today.



You'll hurt, you'll feel broken-hearted, but you'll be better off. Take some time to get really clear with yourself about who you are and what you want. The most important relationship you'll ever have in this world is the one you have with yourself. And eventually, you'll fall in love again 鈥?with someone who's willing to make you first in his life.
Your fren decision to date a married man is her own choice as long as she will not get hurt in a later stage because the married man will not leave his family for her. If she is going out just for fun and have sex with any guy she likes be it a married man or her ex or stranger, then you cannot do anything about it. However, need to advise her to practice safe sex for her own good and for people close to her.

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